Resources

Friends

Catherine Palmier:
– http://racinedumouvement.com/
Gilles Cherix:
– http://www.gillescherix.ch/
– http://www.digitalguru.ch/
Greg Dyke:
– Movement creates connection: http://gregdyke.github.io/
Tracy’s blues blog:
– https://sittingatthefootoftheblues.com/

Relationships

– Strong boundaries, taking responsibility for your emotions and not taking responsibility for other people’s
– Beautiful example of strong boundaries
– http://blog.carsieblanton.com/post/131354056804/emotional-affairs-are-not-a-real-problem
– https://lesfessesdelacremiere.wordpress.com/2016/04/14/couple-libre-revisiter-nos-codes-de-conduite
– http://www.theferrett.com/ferrettworks/2016/05/fuck-your-jealousy-try-mine/
– Emotional labor

Gender questions in the workplace

– The confidence gap. The most comprehensive, backed-by-studies, hands-on analysis of issues I face as a woman in the corporate world I’ve seen
– Dispelling the myths of the gender ambition gap. BCG study about workplace culture & ambition gap
– http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2012/07/why-women-still-cant-have-it-all/309020/
– Amplification
– Female Career Advancement by Janice Fraser
– https://hbr.org/2016/04/research-vague-feedback-is-holding-women-back
– http://fortune.com/2014/08/26/performance-review-gender-bias/

Society questions

– http://www.bodyforwife.com/she-doesnt-owe-you-shit/ , and Ruth’s Facebook post about it
– Own. Apologize. Repair. Article about shame, guilt and emotional labor.
– This is emotional labor, and how girls/women are trained to do it.
– Micro-aggressions, intersectionalism, racism, accommodating
– accommodating, Schroedinger’s rapist, racism vs. sexism
– http://qz.com/762868/giving-up-alcohol-opened-my-eyes-to-the-infuriating-truth-about-why-women-drink/
– medium.com/@emmalindsay/why-does-dating-men-make-me-feel-like-shit
– #FeministFridays – weekly Newsletter by a Googler full of links and gifs about anything related to gender inequality, rape culture, etc. Ask me to forward it to you if you’re interested.

Consent

– http://fusion.net/story/319507/sexual-consent-while-drinking-alcohol/
– https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/i-promise-its-not-lame-to-ask-a-woman-for-permission-dg/

Dance Community

– http://latindancecommunity.com/what-it-means-when-they-say-no/
– http://grapevine.dzouk.com/what-it-means-to-be-a-social-dancer/
– Laura Chieko asks for safe spaces resources (sorry, only visible to her friends)
– Dance Slumps/Plateaus
– https://www.ted.com/talks/trevor_copp_jeff_fox_ballroom_dance_that_breaks_gender_roles

Music

Animation showing the evolution of western dance music:
– http://www.thomson.co.uk/blog/wp-content/uploads/infographic/interactive-music-map/index.html
Musicianship:
– http://www.hoopcity.ca/forum/topics/subject-a-musician-s-answer-to-the-free-gig-craigslist-ad
– http://diymusician.cdbaby.com/musician-tips/youre-paying-hire-musician/

Depression

– Everything is awful and I’m not ok – questions to ask before giving up
– http://inkandfeet.com/how-to-help-someone-with-depression
– hyperbole and a half
– simple and not money-centered self care methods
– subtle signs of depression

Nutrition/Health

– http://www.vivobarefoot.com/eu/learn/the-skill-of-movement/walk-before-you-can-run
– Squatty Potty
Sea Sponge Tampons:
– https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u3jXLm0PNB0
– http://www.me-luna.eu/epages/63898218.sf/de_DE/?ObjectPath=/Shops/63898218/Products/H-1020

Teaching

– http://veittalks.blogspot.ch/

Organizing

– http://www.online-utility.org/english/simple_basic_helper.jsp
– Corpus of contemporary American English
– structured procrastination

Random/Fun

– So You are Thinking of Doing a PhD … take this simple test
– How to understand your INTJ (e.g. me)
– http://beyondblindfold.com/39-ways-to-live-and-not-just-exist/
– Surprising health and wealth distribution stats beautifully presented
– Squatty Potty
– My favorite Human of New York
– Everything about cheese